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Thursday, June 21, 2018

Choose your friends well ... that is who you will become

Do you feel like you truly have fluffed it sometimes - let yourself, others and God down? Do not despair .... 2 Chronicles 19 tells the story of King Jehoshaphat who foolishly aligns himself with King Ahab which earns him God's reproof, but also God's grace.



At my Son's graduation, the Headmaster of the school gave this sound advice to these young graduates: "Choose your friends well, because that is who you will become". This pearl of wisdom is so relevant to boys entering their teenage years.

Like Jehoshaphat, my son has aligned himself once or twice with the wrong crowd in his teens with consequences that could have been severe. However, by God's grace and being reminded of his Headmasters advice by myself and his Dad, he took the appropriate action and removed himself from these groups.

God's goodness to Jehoshaphat, who was almost destroyed by un-discerning folly,  is a testimony to His grace. This grace still is extended to each of us today, He will restore our souls, but we need to repent and turn to Him first.

Practical application:
  •  Like the bleeding woman, fall on your knees and grab hold of Jesus's cloak and beg for his wisdom and grace. 
  • Reflect on your immediate circle of friends, are they godly women, do they encourage your walk with the Lord and do their words and action reflect Christ? If the answer is no, you need to make some tough decisions.
Be blessed.


Wednesday, June 20, 2018
Thursday, June 14, 2018

Podcasts which have transformed my ride to work ...

Listening to podcasts during the drive to work has transformed my life. Instead of dreading the 40 to 50 minute drive through congested traffic, I now eagerly look forward to both the trip to work and from work.

The 3 podcasts below I cannot recommend enough - sound, gospel based content which are encouraging yet still tackle the hard conversations of life.






Journey Women
"Life's a journey we were never meant to walk alone. We all need friends along the way" ... these are the words that open Hunter's podcast. When I am listening to these podcasts I feel I am in the company of friends! Hunter has an amazing gift for sounding at total ease on the air and conversations flows effortlessly between both host and guest. The podcast notes contain resources which I cannot wait to get home and access at the end of each day.  My recent favourite on this podcast is episode 54 Joy with Melissa B Kruger. 

Favourite quote:  "Comparison is a pervasive stealer of joy"


Favourite resource:  In all things (a study on joy)


Revive Our Hearts

Grow in your love for the Word and the Lord Jesus as you listen to Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth. Talks on this podcast really make you ponder your life walk - encouraging, inspiring and interesting. Content is gospel centre and women from all seasons of life can relate to these programs. I am currently listening to the 'Genesis of Gender' which deals with the differences between the sexes, why these differences exist and how to navigate your way through the modern day gender jungle.Visit Revive Our Hearts website which contains plenty of resources.

Set Apart Girl

Not for the faint hearted - Leslie Ludy is not afraid to have those hard conversations ... I have been deeply challenged to scrutinise how I am living my life! Do not let the 'girl' description put you off - this is for all women. I would have so benefited from these talks when I was a young woman - if you are a Mother with daughters I highly recommend you encourage them to listen to this podcast. The website also contains great resources. What I really appreciate about these podcasts is the practical advice Leslie provides with each topic. Favourite episode: Consumer Drive Christianity.

Favourite resource: The Set-Apart Woman:God's Invitation to sacred living (Book) - highly recommended.




If you have a favourite Christian based podcast
please let me know below in the comments.



What if your blessings come through raindrops ...



I have been so blessed this week to listen to ‘Revive our Hearts’ podcast through which Linda Barrick and her daughter Jen share their powerful, and oh so deeply painful, yet uplifting story and testimonies.

The Barrick family were involved in an a fatal head on collision caused by a drunk driver … in a flash, in a less than a minute, instantly – all their lives transformed forever. The wreck left all 4 family members with severe injuries, Jen, the daughter with horrific head injuries.

A few months earlier, Jen had prayed with abandon, “Lord, use me …” … this beautiful teenager had a relationship with the Lord which is very evident through her coma and subsequent, long battle to recovery. 

The book Miracle for Jen tells the story of this devastating event, but more than that miracle upon miracle her family experienced during this trying time – I encourage you to get hold of a copy and read it.

On top of all this, a few years ago, Jen had to endure cancer treatment … this young woman’s attitude and courage put me to shame! Jen’s beauty, grace and dignity literally pours and shines out of every pore on her body. We can all learn something from Jen’s ‘stubborn’  faithfulness to a God who allowed this tragedy (and the miracles) …

  • Jen UNASHAMEDLY shares her faith and story with others …
  • Jen rolls out of bed EVERY morning, straight onto her knees in thanksgiving and prayers inviting the Lord to use her that day …
  • Jen’s Mum says of Jen that she REFUSES to use negative talk – everything is said in a positive light, and
  • She PRAYS for the young man that drover head on into their vehicle.


Listening to Jen’s story of brokenness, endurance and miracles reminded me of Laura Story’s lyrics from her song Blessings (who also has a powerful testimony!)  – so powerful … have a read 

“Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops
What if your healing comes through tears …
What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise?”

Jen’s slow road to recovery affirms God’s promise, “I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living!”. No matter how hard our lives become, whatever we face, God is with us to comfort us, support us and encourage us when we rely on his strength and not our own.

Jen’s favourite praise song was and still is ‘Lord,You’re Holy’ which she had sung at Church the night of the wreck – a powerful reminder of who this God we serve is … the image above captures some of the lyrics from this power song.

Promise: The Lord is, and always will be, the Waymaker“miracle worker, promise keeper, light in the darkness”.

Jen, thank you for being a witness to God’s glory, for sharing your powerful story that other’s like myself can reflect on our lives and learn from your grace, goodness and willingness to walk the path the Lord has designated for you to walk.

Other resources:




Finding joy in the ordinary ...

Hunter on Journey Women podcast (read about my favourite podcast here), at the end of each podcast asks all her guests what their 3 simple joys in life are. Listening to what others defined as their simple joys inspired me to ponder what I consider mine to be and here they are ...



Oil burner
My Mum gave this to me as a present a few years back (each time I light the tea light candle I think of her), and there is not a weekend that goes by that I do not light this up on a Saturday night - once the oil starts to exude its scent, our family room smells like a day spa or retreat ... I can feel the tensions of the week literally drain away. The scent that I'm currently using is Natio Lemongrass ... such a clean, fresh smell.

Books
Being an avid reader my entire life, my motto is "you can never have enough books"! It is not unusual for me to be reading several books at once. Curling up on a lazy Sunday afternoon in colder months or basking on the beach in Summer, reading a good book is my absolute favourite past time.

Fairy lights
Simple, yet when I turn our fairy lights on in the evenings (and especially over the Christmas season) my heart sings!

Sundays
I treasure and so look forward to arriving home after Fellowship on a Sunday and just relaxing with my family and cats. God in His wisdom has graciously allowed and designed a  day of Sabbath for our bodies, minds and lives to rest and recharge  - what a blessing.

Perfume
My one indulgence in life is good quality perfume: 'White Linen' for the Summer months and 'Cinnabar' or 'Youth Dew' for the colder seasons. Wearing perfume make me feel ultra feminine and adds a touch of luxury to my everyday  life.


I so enjoyed musing about what my favourite simple joys are in life ... 
share yours if you like in the comments section below.